I have a "Procrustes " in my life, and after much thought, much to analyze it, come to the conclusion that all I could do to "steal their power" was must-see and talk to that person unilaterally.
Following the teaching of the saga of Freddy Krueger , this person could only be "overcome" by denying its power over me, turning away and ignoring it. This is how I managed that his influence on me is gone, and "mine" decline to where it always should have been.
This person has a history that explain part of their behavior, and that was what always appeals to continue the relationship with her, but in the end, as my wife, what is really important what you do, not the intent with which it is or may be justified acts.
I guess we all have a Procrustes in our lives, influencing our lives in direct proportion to the relationship that unites us, and inverse to the ability to deny that we have.
In any case I have learned that one can not always win with good wishes to someone, because just a single trip, or even none for this type of person you're prosecuted and convicted.
And I have also learned that the teachings can be almost anywhere, even hidden in a horror franchise of the series "B".
My little Padawans that the force be with you.
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